Girls usually love bad boys. I am not sure why.
Maybe boys look attractive when they are bad and girls look attractive when they are good.
(This is my own stupid theory. haha you can disagree with me.)
Still remember shows like The Powerpuff Girls, Totally Spies and Winx Club?As a boy, don't you love those girls that are kind and save the world by fighting the villains?
Or is it just me?
Boys are more attractive to girls when they are bad, don't you think so?
Probably because bad guys can help to give a sense of security to the girls when there is any danger.
Bad here doesn't mean bad to the extent of doing something that hurt others.
But bad as in don't usually do what others tell them to do, not doing anything in order to please others and usually don't smile too much.
Some studies have been done:
Many girls generally find men who appear confident with a proud face more attractive than smiling men. They tend to associate males who smile a lot to be more of a feminine side.
They don't care about how others feel that much compared to nice guys.
That may be the most important reason that girls like them.
I find that through my own experience, no one like to be treated too nicely.
Many of them feel that they are unworthy to be treated that way.
Some people also may get uncomfortable, because they feel the need to do something in return.
Do you like someone who treats you nicely the first day you meet them?
I believe many people will feel bored and eventually don't find that "nodding head to everything" an attractive quality anymore.
Sometimes it is acceptable to be bad!
Because being too good to someone doesn't help to make you more attractive.
Sometimes it is good to say "NO" even to the girl that we like the most.
Pleasing the opposite sex every time is not a good move to make.
It is better to be genuine than be nice. ^^
Don't be a nice guy. Don't be a bad guy.
But be someone between the two extreme is the best in my personal opinion. A little bit of this and a little bit of that. =D
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