I am back again! wohhooo.. Nothing too dramatic to share about. Just going to say some boring stuffs again. sowie.. =D
Today let us talk about something that some of us may face in our daily life, that is dealing with people who seen your messages and don't give any response about it.
(we usually can know that someone ignores us when we see those blue ticks in whatsapp and the "seen" appeared at the bottom of the chatbox in FB)
Actually there is no way to deal with this. Haha I realize how foolish it is to think about interesting topics to talk about/ the best way to type a message/ spamming/ getting upset in order to get the other person to reply. Forcing others can never make a friendship/relationship last. I know that through decades of experience okay, so trust me. LOL!
Now how I deal with it : (some suggestions from the web)
- they may be scared that they will fall in love with you so deeply that they will go insane.
- they may feel that they are not good enough and they may have a hard time competing for you
So the above reasons may be why they don't reply. Get it?
The statements may sound arrogant/cocky. But I think it doesn't matter, because I think it helps people to deal with the negative emotions when rejection from others actually occur.
And even if most people already know about this, I would just like to make another reminder:
And even if most people already know about this, I would just like to make another reminder:
Not everyone is going to like us or be interested in us. Not even the world's bestest looking person!
Don't take it too seriously. Sometimes it is nothing too personal, they may be busy that they forgot to reply and they may reply in one week time! =D
Even if they don't reply to you at all, know that you are worthy of love & happiness, don't let another human being ruin your mood and make you feel like a nobody in this world feeling sad.You still have "YOU". You can continue to go out there, spread more love to more people and maybe get some in return.
Give with no expectations and you will know that no matter if the person replies or not, you will have no issue with it! <3
And another way I like to think about it is this: Yeah, they may not reply, its because they don't want to hurt you. If someone really types out how they feel, it could be something more hurtful than not replying. Know that the other person still cares for you that they choose to avoid and ignore rather than being cruel and nasty about it. Of course, there is another side of argument here, they care for their image, so they don't reply. But why not choose to look at the positive side of things and feel amazing about it?
Your life, your perspective. =D
