Do you care how others react to you?

Sometimes we care so much about what others think that it just makes our life less interesting.
We don't say what we want to say just because we think it is stupid or maybe no one will respond to us and we might feel rejected.
It is a really sad feeling to live our life following the norm.
We can actually be doing things differently. Maybe wearing the clothes that you personally think is something a model would wear. Yeah, others might judge you. But that's just because you are living your life. When your life is fascinating, there will be people out there that tries to judge you to make your life less fascinating. They are jealous because deep inside! they want to do the same too.
Seriously,
Don't do this or that because of others doing the same.
I know I might sound like a positive motivational speaker, but it really is important that we know we are all special and unique in our very own way.

We are all beautiful people inside and out and don't let anyone tell you any different.

I saw a post about psychology in Facebook saying that if you get rejected, it is the same feeling as getting hurt physically. I am no scientist or researcher, but search it up, there is evidence and a study done about it.
But despite the fact that it hurts a lot, I think rejection is not something that we should worry about, it is our feelings that we should be caring more about.
So what if we get rejected if we do the things we want?
At least we are happy after we do what we want.

If we go for a job interview for a job that we are very passionate about and we don't get it, so what? Try another one. Maybe there are other job offers that are far better than the one you did not get.

If we talk about a topic of our interest or maybe we think it is a topic that might interest others, but no one bother you. So what?
It is not your problem. It is the person that you are together with. They have the freedom to do whatever they want. It is their choice to choose to respond or not. And we have no power to make them respond the way we want.
And believe me, I don't think there is anyone that is able to create a topic that is interesting enough to attract everyone's attention. We all have different interest.

If we smile to others, they just show us a weird look or ignore us like they didn't even see us.so what?
Just continue to smile to others and ignore those that ignore you. You will eventually find someone that smiles back! And you might make a new friend or something more than that!

At the end of the day, it is your life. Live it the way you like. :)