I love those people that are super friendly towards others.
Even if it is the first time they have just met you, you treat you like a best friend.
Some of my friends like to classify their friends into different categories and treat each of them differently according to how important they are to them.
I was once someone like that.
But wouldn't it be great to treat everyone like how you will treat your family members/best friend?
Do you have friends who are always smiling and have that positive outlook on life?
How do you feel around them, don't you feel great?(compared to those who love to gossip/complain/blame)
They are like angels walking on this planet.
They help you whenever you need help and they don't ask for anything in return.
They smile to you without any reason and made you feel better when you had a bad day.
ARghhh. I just can't express how much I LOVE those people.
I am trying my best to become one of them.
However, there will be a lot of people pulling positive people down, because they don't like so much positivity. They are already used to living in a world full of negativity but they don't realize.
Some examples:
They criticize people more than they compliment.
They don't like to see others smile for no reason. They say something like what's so funny? Why are you smiling for no reason? I mean do we really need a reason to smile? Why can we spend so much time feeling sad and allow it? And why can't we spend more time smiling and be happy?
People are more trained to feel bad about themselves. Feeling that they need to improve in many different aspect of life. Yeah, it's good to keep improving.
But it's actually the moment when we can approve ourselves and accept your flaws, that we can slowly moving towards changing it. The first step of change is always awareness!
They think that feeling good about themselves is bad. It's not wrong to see the positive qualities in ourselves!
Anyway, train yourselves to have a positive mindset.
Have a positive attitude towards life!
Do it not because of others, but for yourselves.
Being positive can create ripple effect and sooner or later the effect may reflect back towards you and the same goes for the other way round.
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