Likes..

Facebook, instagram are all about the likes.
Almost everyone wants their photos to get as many likes as possible.
And some will even ask their close friends to like their photo. Or using their friends account to like all the photos in Instagram since the day they started Instagram. That's what I do and some of my friends too. Haha so desperate for likes. :P it's kinda an addiction. Addiction to approval maybe?

Why do we want to earn likes from others?
I know some of us don't care. But some of us still do care to some extent.

Probably because: All of us wants to be accepted, loved, cared and noticed by others. Having someone liking our photos make us feel that way. 

So spread the love today to those around you.
Thumbs up for people who you think deserve it. Or post a comment complimenting the person if you want. In my personal opinion, I would say a lot of you tubers should get more thumbs up, because they have put in a lot of effort in making their awesome videos.
And also thumbs up for the selfie-takers, they have worked hard too in taking & editing their photos.lol!

But anyway the main takeaway message is to see the good and positive qualities of others.
Compliment them. Like them. :D
You will feel good and they will feel good too. Win-win situation!

(Random stuffs: In Instagram, there are people who follows u and hope that you follow back.
And after a few seconds you follow them, they will unfollow you.)
arghhhhhhh. I don't like this kind of people a lot la.

PS: I am not sure what I am writing for this blog post. Anyway just want to update my blog. :X

Rejection :X

Things just don't go well for me nowadays. I just feel that it's tough to be human.
There are so much things that can happen that makes me feel pissed off.
Sometimes
We might ignore someone, but we have no intention to do so
We hurt someone, but we are actually trying to help them(Telling the truth hurts)
We love someone, but they don't love us
We have faith in someone, but they don't deserved to be trusted
We treat someone like our best buddies, but they don't actually care a single bit about us
We care for someone, but we don't get appreciated
We try to be nice to someone, but others think that we have purpose behind what we do
We want to make friends with strangers, but they will give us that weird look

I don't mean to be very negative, but sometimes stuffs like these happen.
Sometimes you are trying to be really positive, but things like what I mentioned above happen.
Anyway, know that you are not alone dealing with all these matters in life.

It's tough to be nice to others at times. Because many people don't appreciate it.
But rejection by others is okay.
Even if people reject you, you are still you. Nothing else changes.
Find someone else that accept you, love you and appreciate you for who you are. And if you have nobody to turn to know that you still have yourself, you don't need to depend on anyone for happiness. Be happy yourself and eventually someone will show up in your life to join your fun.

And one more thing, don't see rejection as a failure like how I used to see it.
Get up and face rejection head-on!
What doesn't  kill you makes you stronger!
If you are someone who workouts, you will know that pain/soreness is essential for muscular growth.
Rejection is also the same thing.
Haha lets treat rejection like a workout. Never get afraid of the pain and stop moving.
Let's grab a towel and go "workout"!
Recommended volume: do 3sets of 1 repetitions per day.
And sooner or later, you will be stronger and able to deal with rejection more easily. Whee~

PS: Keep moving forward. Say cheese. :)