How to deal with some one not replying my messages

Okay, it had been one month since I last updated this blog.

I am back again! wohhooo.. Nothing too dramatic to share about. Just going to say some boring stuffs again. sowie.. =D

Today let us talk about something that some of us may face in our daily life, that is dealing with people who seen your messages and don't give any response about it.

(we usually can know that someone ignores us when we see those blue ticks in whatsapp and the "seen" appeared at the bottom of the chatbox in FB)

Actually there is no way to deal with this. Haha I realize how foolish it is to think about interesting topics to talk about/ the best way to type a message/ spamming/ getting upset in order to get the other person to reply. Forcing others can never make a friendship/relationship last. I know that through decades of experience okay, so trust me. LOL!

Now how I deal with it : (some suggestions from the web)

- they may be scared that they will fall in love with you so deeply that they will go insane.

- they may feel that they are not good enough and they may have a hard time competing for you 

So the above reasons may be why they don't reply. Get it? 

The statements may sound arrogant/cocky. But I think it doesn't matter, because I think it helps people to deal with the negative emotions when rejection from others actually occur.
And even if most people already know about this, I would just like to make another reminder: 

Not everyone is going to like us or be interested in us. Not even the world's bestest looking person!

Don't take it too seriously. Sometimes it is nothing too personal, they may be busy that they forgot to reply and they may reply in one week time! =D

Even if they don't reply to you at all, know that you are worthy of love & happiness, don't let another human being ruin your mood and make you feel like a nobody in this world feeling sad.You still have "YOU". You can continue to go out there, spread more love to more people and maybe get some in return.

Give with no expectations and you will know that no matter if the person replies or not, you will have no issue with it! <3

And another way I like to think about it is this: Yeah, they may not reply, its because they don't want to hurt you. If  someone really types out how they feel, it could be something more hurtful than not replying. Know that the other person still cares for you that they choose to avoid and ignore rather than being cruel and nasty about it. Of course, there is another side of argument here, they care for their image, so they don't reply. But why not choose to look at the positive side of things and feel amazing about it? 

Your life, your perspective. =D

Its the best & worst day of my life.

Today is like the worst day n the best day of my life.

It's the first time in my life that I couldn't settle the bill in the restaurant. My card for some reason doesn't work n I didn't have enough money to pay. I was so panicked that I even asked strangers for help. I needed just another rm4 to pay the full amount of the bill. I actually tried to ask for help from one girl working in the mobile shop and she rejected me right away like I am scamming her. Arghh. Thanks to all those scammers, humans have lost trust in each other!!!!
That's what I thought in my mind.
(worst day of my life)

But anyway I scrolled through my contact list to find help n I finally decided to give my housemate a call. He just asked where am I n how he can offer his help without asking me any other additional questions. I was so blessed to have a housemate like that. He don't get anything in return for doing this, but he still decided to help me. I appreciate people like him a lot!

As I was planning to go back to the restaurant to tell the waiter that my housemate is coming to help me settle the bill, the waiter said it's fine. Just give me whatever amount you can. You can pay the remaining amount tmr. Omgggg I was so speechless. He didn't ask for my contact number or anything. He asked what time will I reach tmr to pay and he let me go. He trusted me!
In the end, I still haven't gave up on my card n I gave it one last try, n I got the money to pay. At last. So I quickly rush back to the restaurant n gave the money.

Hahaaa the smile on the waiter just made my night. :) n he said aiyo why not pay tmr. (Why so rush) haha actually I felt like giving a hug to the waiter for trusting me. But that will be kinda scary n weird. So I just gave an imaginary hug n went back home with a big big smile on my face.
(best day of my life)

Some of us choose not to have faith in our fellow human beings n always choose to stand aside when others are really in need of help. I understand that it is hard to have trust in others with all those scams or cheating going on around us.

But imagine if u are really (sincerely) seeking for urgent help and no one helped u. Yeah sometimes its hard to judge if a person is really in need of help, so I think the best way is to help whenever we can n not always choose to ignore. :)
N someone told me this n I agree wholeheartedly. Those street performers, beggars, tissue salesman, n etc, they really deserved to be paid a least a few dollars, because they are not out there stealing or doing illegal stuffs n they are working hard everyday to earn some money to sustain themselves.

Give whenever we have more than what we need, and we will definitely receive more blessings in life!
(The more we give, the more we get.) ;)

Random 001
I made a friend in the lrt station this afternoon,I felt amazing being able to connect with someone and not having to show a cold n emotionless facial expression throughout the whole ride. I am surprised at the friendliness of this new friend of mine. I actually met him two days ago, but am so lucky to meet him again today to exchange contact. :D

Random 002
And this day I met a primary school friend that I havent seen for quite some time, about 12years for a meal.
(Didn't know we have so many things in common nowadays.)
I enjoyed being with her n talking about random topics. She is a person that shows a lot of empathy towards people by the way she respond to my problems n I feel like she really understands me. Haha I believe she will become a really successful psychologist in the future. :DD